5 Tips For Shy Bloggers

5 Tips For Shy Bloggers

I always believed that blogging is for everyone (And, yes, that includes those people who are shy).

Shy people do have a voice (they may not speak that often), but they have a story inside of them ― a story that can be expressed via blogging.

If you are a shy person who is thinking about venturing into blogging, you will have to lose your shyness.

So today, I am going to provide some simple tips that will help shy bloggers overcome their shyness.

1.) Interact With Your Commenters

If someone reads one of your blog posts and they like it, there is a high probability of them pressing the Like button as well as leaving you a comment in the comment section of your blog.

Being shy, you might choose not to respond to the comment.

Now, when it comes to blogging, one’s willingness to interact with a commenter is a prerequisite.

Therefore, you will need to sum up the confidence from within you and respond to the person’s comment.

Your response could be a simple, “Thank you.”

If you get yourself into the habit of responding to the comments on your blog regularly, it could help you to grow out of your shyness.

2.) Find Like-Minded Bloggers To Interact With

Finding like-minded bloggers to interact with is highly recommended (It is one of those things that will help you to overcome your shyness).

One of the best places to locate like-minded bloggers is the WordPress Reader. For example, if you are into poetry, you can type in the Poetry tag in the WordPress Reader.

If you are new to WordPress or you are one of those people who have never used the WordPress Reader before, the article, Reader by the WordPress.com Support Team, will teach you everything that will need to know about this functionality.

3.) Participate In Prompts

If you are shy, participating in prompts could help you to step outside of your figurative shell ― the one that has been limiting your experiences for quite a long time.

My friend, Fandango, has some of the best prompts that I have ever seen on WordPress (He is really good at what he does).

Plus, he is good with people; he will make you feel at home.

Fandango’s prompts are worth taking part in.

4.) Publish Some Stuff About Yourself

Talking about yourself is another way of overcoming your shyness.

Now, you do not have to go overboard by giving away all the details of yourself (There are some things that should remain private).

However, what you can do is slowly break the ice by publishing the following types of blog posts:

  • A blog post that discusses some of your favourite books.
  • A blog post that highlights some of your favourite movies.
  • A blog post that discusses some of your favourite songs.
  • A blog post that is based on some of your favourite foods.
  • A blog post that is based on some of the places that you have visited.
  • A blog post that shows off your artwork.
  • A blog post that displays some of the photographs that you took with your own camera.

Contrary to what some people may think or believe, there are shy people who are talented at many things (We will not see their unique gifts until they are comfortable enough to disclose them to us).

5.) Let Your Hair Down

When I say, “Let your hair down,” I am not suggesting that you take it out of the bun and allow it to drop on your shoulders; I am suggesting that you should relax and enjoy yourself.

The WordPress community is mostly comprised of wonderful people ― the type of people who are supportive of each other.

You might encounter a miserable soul in the form of a troll occasionally, but you can rest assured knowing that those types of people are in the minority.

The more you let your hair down in the blogosphere, the more comfortable you are going to feel (And, it would help you to distance yourself from your shyness).

Final Thoughts

It is possible for bloggers to overcome their shyness; that can be accomplished by:

  • They making a conscientious effort to interact with their blog’s commenters.
  • They making an effort to find like-minded bloggers to interact with.
  • They being brave enough to participate in prompts.
  • They having the courage to publish stuff about themselves.
  • They letting their hair down.

There is always hope for the blogger who is shy.

Putting the above pointers into practice should help you to overcome your shyness in the blogosphere.

And, as always, thank you for reading!

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95 Comments

  1. I think these are good tips for all bloggers, shy or not. I hope they take your recommendations.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you, Brandon.

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  2. delunasofia says:

    I always LOVE your posts. Just a thought…in β€œfinal thoughts” bullets, delete the β€˜they’? This post is so wholesome. πŸ₯°

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    1. πŸ€” Nope the “They” stays.

      If you read the first paragraph of “Final Thoughts” you will understand the reason for “They” and why “They” flows well.

      Thank you for your valuable input!

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      1. delunasofia says:

        Maybe β€œtheir” if not deleted?

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        1. πŸ€” No can do. Replacing “They” with “Their” would be most inappropriate.

          Once again, it has a lot to do with the flow of the first paragraph of the “Final Thoughts” subsection.

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          1. delunasofia says:

            My apologies. I didn’t mean to impose. πŸ˜”

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            1. πŸ€” The thought of you imposing never crossed my mind.

              I was merely stating my reasons why your suggestions would not work for me.

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              1. delunasofia says:

                I respect that. πŸ™‚

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  3. Poetry Goddess - Luna B says:

    Good post Renard!

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you, Luna B.

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      1. Poetry Goddess - Luna B says:

        Your welcome

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  4. Rahul says:

    Why my blog doesn’t get any views?

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    1. πŸ€” Actually, your blog is receiving views. I had a look at your blog and I noticed that there are likes on your blog posts.

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      1. Rahul says:

        Is my blog need any improvement

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        1. πŸ™‚ I recommend giving your blog some more time for it to gain traction.

          No one builds a huge readership in a single day.

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          1. Rahul says:

            Ok Thank you πŸ™

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  5. delunasofia says:

    I just want to say, I love your blog and think you are such a talented creator and writer. This post truly touched me. I may not be conventionally β€œshy” but I have my moments. Thank you for sharing.

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    1. πŸ™‚ You are welcome, Sofia.

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  6. Merel says:

    The tips you give are all true. Especially the β€œlet your hair down” and finding like minded people. Interaction is not to be forgotten cause is can actually damage your blog by nog doing it, in my opinion.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for voicing your opinion, Merel.

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  7. Daily Poetry says:

    As usual it was very informative. I think I am going to do some prompts more.

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    1. πŸ€” That would not be a bad idea at all. I think that you are going to do well in the area of prompts.

      Thank you for participating in the discussion.

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  8. Well, I’m not quite shy when I engage with other bloggers or when I put my thoughts in front of them. It’s actually when I meet them in real.
    I find my way to overcome my shyness through blogging. So, I can say these are really good tips. Thanks Renard.

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    1. πŸ™‚ You are most welcome, Ritish.

      Thank you for reading and commenting.

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  9. Clear and logical guidance Renard πŸ™‚

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you, my friend.

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  10. Andie✨ says:

    Thank you for these useful tips! I need to work on interacting more and β€˜letting my hair down’ moreπŸ˜‰

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    1. πŸ™‚ You are welcome, Andie.

      Thank you for reading and commenting!

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  11. Fandango says:

    Great post, Renard, and thanks for the shoutout. I really appreciate it.

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    1. πŸ™‚ You are welcome, Fandango.

      You deserve the shout-out because you are the king of prompts. πŸ‘‘

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  12. I’m a shy person by nature, but blogging is one place where I can truly be myself.

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    1. πŸ™‚ It is good to know that you can trust yourself when it comes to blogging.

      Not bad at all for a shy person. You are performing rather well in the blogosphere.

      Thank you for participating in the discussion.

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  13. β€œThere is always hope for the blogger who is shy.”

    Shyness should not a hurdle causing improper conversation between two people.

    I was very shy in the school.☺️

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for your valuable input, Lokesh.

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  14. Great post Renard as always. I’m really shy but yeh sometimes I get so, thanks for sharing all these tips with us.

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    1. πŸ™‚ You are welcome, Akshita.

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  15. You are right. Shy people can blog too

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for participating in the discussion, Hannah.

      Do enjoy the rest of your day!

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  16. Quite unusual topic to write about. Wonderful!
    And yes, we shouldn’t go overboard in giving away every detail about us. Good piece of advice.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you, Shahbaz.

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  17. Sadje says:

    I think this is really good advice for a new blogger, shy or not.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for your valuable input, Sadje.

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      1. Sadje says:

        My pleasure. This is how I did it in the beginning.

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  18. Alison says:

    Good words of encouragement Renard

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you, Alison.

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  19. Halsdoll says:

    It is true. Shy people tend to be talented at many things and tend to have the most interesting ideas. If only they can overcome their shyness, they have so much to offer the world. I wish them luck.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for voicing your opinion, Halsdoll.

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  20. Demion Tongov says:

    Great article Renard πŸ‘

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you, Demion.

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      1. Demion Tongov says:

        You’re welcome Renard 🀝

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  21. I will love to try out prompts….thanks

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    1. πŸ™‚ There is a link in this article (which is Fandango) that takes you to a blog that specializes in prompts.

      Thank you for reading and commenting!

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      1. I have followed the link and I have entered the prompt for this month. Thanks

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        1. πŸ™‚ You are welcome, Cynthia.

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  22. James L says:

    Great post – I find blogging is a great platform for the introverted or shy blogger.

    The written word allows us to consider what we want to say, and also actually say something without worrying about details like the pitch and tone of voice.

    You can also the medium to maintain privacy if you wish, gradually exposing small details when feeling comfortable.

    Blogging let’s us have a voice when the video platforms may not be comfortable.

    Good advice with commenting when you start It’s hard, but with practice it comes easier to talk the more you do it!

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for sharing that with me, James.

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  23. Eugenia says:

    Excellent post, Renard, and a great help to all bloggers. Prompts are a great way to meet others and get involved in discussions.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Than you, Eugenia.

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      1. Eugenia says:

        You’re welcome, Renard.

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  24. Jim Borden says:

    I consider myself on the shy side, and I think blogging has definitely helped me be a bit more outgoing…

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for sharing that with me, Jim.

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  25. Zsolt Zsemba says:

    That’s how I felt. Putting yourself out there is never easy.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for sharing that with me, Zsolt.

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  26. Hetty Eliot says:

    I am shy, believe it or not. Sometimes I’m afraid to post something because I don’t want to bother people, or I don’t answer comments for days because I don’t want to say the wrong thing.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for sharing that with me, Hetty.

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  27. Mightyworld says:

    Great article… really helps me a lot…your blogs makes my day to day life easier you are humble guy u interact with your audience 🎩

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you!

      I enjoy interacting with my audience.

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  28. Qonyike says:

    As always, you give wonderful advice ✨. Quick question though, what are prompts?🧐

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    1. πŸ€“ Prompts, in regards to blogging, are those ideas or special themes that bloggers base their blog posts on. For example, a prompt can be based on telling us why you love WordPress.

      The majority of Fandango’s blog posts are based on prompts. Check out his blog; you will see perfect examples of prompts (Click on the name “Fandango” in my blog post; it will forward you to his homepage).

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      1. Qonyike says:

        Thank you 😊

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        1. πŸ™‚ You are welcome!

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  29. It’s very difficult for introverts to “let their hair down,” but courteous response to comments is a must, I think.

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    1. πŸ€” That sounds plausible, Dolly.

      Thank you for sharing your perspective!

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  30. Excellent post with excellent advice!!
    I wished someone would have given me those guidelines way back in 2005. Hahaha!
    I learned from experience & now interacting with everyone is 2nd nature to me…I enjoy the entire ‘blogging’ experience~~thank you for being a part of this experience Renard!
    Sincerely, Sherri-Ellen aka BellaSita Mum
    **purrss** BellaDharma

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    1. πŸ™‚ You are welcome, Sherri-Ellen.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you!

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  31. prensjr78 says:

    Thanks for your support πŸ˜‡ this is awesome πŸ‘πŸ’–.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you!

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  32. RashidasWorld says:

    I guess most of the shy people are bloggers as they feel better in express their thoughts in writing instead of expressing verbally.

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for sharing your perspective.

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  33. RashidasWorld says:

    πŸ‘

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    1. πŸ™‚ I am taking your thumbs up as a sign of your approval.

      Thank you!

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      1. RashidasWorld says:

        It’s a sign of acknowledgement.

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  34. Abhi says:

    Informative I’ll work on it
    And overcome from shyness

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for sharing that with me, Abhi.

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    2. prensjr78 says:

      Thanks for this good advice, surely need to fix my issues….

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  35. I for one am an Extrovert, I enjoy interacting with people who have the same enthusiasm as me such as sharing insights with fashion lovers about what’s trendy this season😊

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    1. πŸ™‚ Thank you for sharing that with me, Mthobisi.

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    2. prensjr78 says:

      Thanks πŸ‘πŸ˜‡πŸ’–.

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  36. Aww, thank you for this. :)) Love it so much.

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    1. πŸ™‚ I am pleased to know that, Angela.

      Thank you for reading and commenting!

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