These 7 Things Can Steal A Blogger’s Joy

Brown BoardUnfortunately, there are lots of things that are capable of robbing a blogger of their joy.

Do you know what happens to a blogger who has their joy stolen?

They end up losing their zeal to blog (And, that is a bad thing because the blogger could end up abandoning their blog).

So, without further ado, let us explore some of the things that could steal a blogger’s joy.

1.) Comparing Your Blog To Others

Dear friend, it is unwise to compare your blog to the other blogs in the blogosphere because it could lead to unhappiness.

In reality, you will discover blogs that are prettier looking than yours, blogs that contain way better content than yours and blogs that are updated way often than yours.

Instead of getting depressed, angry or jealous, do keep in mind that there are bloggers who are more skilled and more experienced than others.

Therefore, if you only started blogging a few days ago, do not expect to be on par with the blogger who has been blogging for three years.

Even though it is clear for you to see that there is a lot of room for improvement, never say to yourself, “I am not good enough!”

The God’s/Goddess’s truth is that you are good enough to learn (And, you will learn more about blogging as time goes along).

I want you to remember that the well-experienced bloggers were inexperienced bloggers at some point in their lives (They gradually acquired their blogging skills over a period of time).

So, the wise thing to do is to continue learning at your own pace.

There will come a time when you will become one of the well-experienced bloggers (And, you can pass on what you have learned to the inexperienced bloggers).

I do not compare my blog to other blogs because I view my blog as being unique.

As a matter of fact, I adhere to the belief that all blogs should be unique.

2.) Believing That You Are A Failure

Never make the mistake of believing that you are a failure.

The only time you fail is when you give up and if you are giving blogging your best figurative shot, you are not a failure.

It is a sad fact, that there are certain so-called blogging experts that tend to make other bloggers feel as though they are failures.

And, how did some of those so-called blogging experts go about making other bloggers feel like failures?

They told them that they should never waste their time blogging on

Those so-called blogging experts solely believe in blogging on (The self-hosted version of WordPress).

For the record, I have nothing against; after all, it is ideal for those people who wish to run a business-related blog and have it monetized from day one.

However, if a blogger simply wants to have a bit of fun with running a personal blog, they can do so on or on any blogging platform that they desire.

Many years ago (during my time over on Blogger), a woman from India said to me, “If you are serious about blogging, you should blog on”

At the time, I had no intentions of making a living from blogging.

Today, I still do not have any intentions of making an income via blogging.

My blog is a personal blog and it is not mandatory for me to go in the direction of the self-hosted route.

However, if I were to venture into the area of business, I would set up a blog on

Is it right to belittle a blogger for blogging on

“No, ” is the obvious answer.

To be most straightforward with you, a blogger has a lot more freedom on; they can customize their blog to their heart’s content.

The tricky aspect of being self-hosted is that you need to choose a reliable hosting provider along with a plan that is most suitable for your blog or online business.

I have read numerous articles from people who had bad experiences with hosting companies like Bluehost and Hostgator.

The good news is that there are many hosting companies and plans to choose from.

And most importantly, I do not want to discourage anyone from going self-hosted.

In all honesty, self-hosted blogs are not for everyone.

Believe it or not, there are bloggers who left to go over at and they came right back to

And, of course, there are those bloggers who are doing rather well on

Also, a lot of blogs have failed over at (Their owners gave up on them).

Dear friend, I want you to know, that anyone can have a successful blog at any part of the blogosphere (Provided that the blogger is willing to put out the necessary work).

And, never allow anyone to make you feel as though you are a second-class blogger.

3.) Not Blogging About The Things That Are Of Interest To You

For starters, it is your blog (And, that in itself gives you the right to post about whatever that is of interest to you).

Some bloggers went with certain niches because of their high level of popularity (But, not all of the bloggers that chose to go with those popular niches are genuinely interested in them).

Do you know what happens to a blogger when they end up going with a niche that they are not interested in?

They end up getting bored!

If they went along with a niche that they were truly interested in, they would be ecstatic.

Also, it is a thousand times easier to create content for a blog that is based on a niche or a topic that you are genuinely passionate about.

So, please save yourself the unnecessary trouble by posting things on your blog that you are sincerely interested in.

4.) Endorsing Products That You Do Not Believe In

No blogger should ever endorse products that they do not believe in.

However, there are some bloggers who do not mind endorsing a product that they do not believe in (They do it with the intentions of paying off some type of debt).

Endorsing a product that you do not believe in is akin to selling your soul.

Most people expect bloggers to be honest where reviews are concerned and when you endorse a product that you do not believe in, you are being deceitful (And, deceitful bloggers do end up losing their credibility in the end).

You are better off endorsing products that you are in full agreement with and your viewing audience deserves to know the truth at all times.

If you are getting paid to do something, it might as well be in alignment with your values.

Besides, bloggers who are in touch with their authenticity will only endorse products that they believe in.

5.) Overworking Yourself

Overworking yourself is definitely out of the question.


Because it would lead to you being burnt out.

Also, you cannot perform at your best if you are burnt out.

So, to avoid being burnt out, I highly recommend that you read my article, 6 Ways To Prevent Blogger Burnout.

Dear friend, you are of no use to anyone in the blogosphere in a burnt out state of mind.

So, choose a blogging schedule that is most suitable for you and stick with it.

6.) Attempting To Create Content For Your Blog When You Are Hungry

It is a waste of time creating content for your blog when you are hungry (Unless your blog post is based on hunger pangs).

For starters, you should not create content for your blog when you are hungry because your mind would be solely focused on food consumption.

If you manage to become hungry while you are creating content for your blog, take a break and look for something to eat — preferably something along the lines of a nutritionally balanced meal.

Low blood sugar levels will make anyone who does not eat on time a bit cranky.

So, do not even dream of creating content for your blog when you are hungry.

7.) Not Having An Electronic Device To Blog On

Not having an electronic device to blog on can be a blogger’s worst nightmare.

Unfortunately, not everyone has two computers at their disposal (Some people only own one).

A few years ago, my laptop computer behaved strangely; it switched right off every time I turned it on (Back then, I thought that I had technical issues with my laptop computer; but I was relieved when I found out that the issue stemmed from my degrading laptop power supply cord).

At the time, I borrowed an HP laptop computer from a friend of mine (And, that enabled me to get my quota of blogging done).

Today, I can use my Android smartphone as a backup device (It will be utilized for blogging purposes the day that I am having technical difficulties with my laptop computer).

Do you have a backup plan in place?

Do you have a spare electronic device that you can use to get your quota of blogging done?

Luckily, most people own smartphones and those electronic devices can be used to create and publish blog posts (It might appear a bit daunting for a lot of people, but it is possible to get your quota of blogging done on your smartphone).

Final Thoughts

The seven things that I mentioned has the potential of stealing a blogger’s joy, but as you have learned there are effective methods of counteracting those things.

By the way, I highly doubt that you are the type of blogger who would allow those things that I mentioned to steal your joy because you are not going to give up without a fight.

Always keep in mind, that there is a solution for every problem imaginable.

And as always, thank you for checking out, Renard’s World.

Love and light, my friend.


40 thoughts on “These 7 Things Can Steal A Blogger’s Joy

  1. I agree, Renard! Btw, I have been blogging for two months now and so far have only used my mobile phone in drafting and publishing my blog. But you are right, a secondary device will be great because it assures continuity and when my fingers get tired using the mobile phone! Hehe

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  2. I think the feeling of failure gets in the way the most. We tend to put a lot of pressure on ourselves and sometimes create unreasonable expectations. I’m guilty of this for sure! I’m incredibly lucky to have supporting individuals in my life that help me through the hard days.

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  3. I agree with your list, Renard! I’m guilty of a few of your pointers, most especially the one about overworking oneself.
    Lately, I’ve been letting go of some activities that are unimportant, yet drain my energy… Hopefully, I will fix my tight schedule and start blogging more efficiently before the end of the year.

    Great post, Renard!

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  4. Any pessimism I have about blogging relates to written blogging itself in 2018 and not so much myself as a writer.

    The way people consume digital content has changed so much. I have to remind myself that while I do everything on a desktop PC at home, most “normies” here in the UK don’t even have a desktop or laptop at home. They only use one at work, if at all.

    They come home, watch network television like it was still the 20th century and then tap away distractedly on their smartphones at the same time.

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  5. Excellent points, Renard, especially about other bloggers who tell you that you can’t be serious about blogging if you’re not self-hosted. I have seen people come back to WordPress.Com, but equally, I know a lot of self-hosted bloggers who have made a huge success out of being self-hosted. I’ve been tempted but never switched. I’m happy blogging on

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  6. Point six amused me, might have to try blogging when hungry just to experience it!
    Regards product endorsement, I keep name dropping Ben & Jerry’s in the hope they’ll employ me to promote their very delicious ice cream!

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  7. I can’t believe people actually put bloggers down for using a WordPress blog. I think WordPress is one of the most used platforms for blogging and site creation!

    I chuckled when I read the tip about not blogging when you’re hungry because I’m guilty of doing that, especially when I start working on a new post at the crack of done. I’m way less focused on my content and more focused on the sound my stomach is making, plus despite being a morning person, when I’m trying to blog on an empty stomach I’m really grumpy.

    It’s super important to blog about things that actually interest you, especially if you’re running a niche blog. You have to be able to sit down and write without worrying that you’ll get bored and if you’re blogging about something just to make money you’re going to be greatly disappointed. It’s pretty darn obvious when a blogger or site owner just wants you to buy something and isn’t interested in helping their readers.

    Thanks for the great tips and reminders! I’m sure I’m not the only one who found this post helpful!

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  8. 🤔 Thank you, Dolly.

    Unfortunately, your issues seem to be a very common one on WordPress.

    You can rectify the issue by entering your WordPress Reader. Then look for “Followed Sites” on the lefthand side of the page (It is the first option) and then press “Manage”; it will forward you to the section of everyone you are following.

    Scroll down until you find my name and once you have found it, you would see the word “Follow” underneath it is the word “Settings” (Click on “Settings”; you would be given these two options:

    1. “Notify me of new posts.”

    2. “Email me new posts.”

    It is very easy to do, my friend.


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